1 Amber Strike - Teresa
Posted: Thu Sep 10, 2015 8:11 am
Hi there,
Nicky is on a trip at the moment and so I offered to assist with some of his moderator tasks today.
I am issuing Teresa with 1 AMBER STRIKE as she has been in breach of the following terms of use:
1. "Not taking personal responsibility for your own emotions and growth by repeatedly trying to involve others in your own processing work from a narcissistic rather than from a loving/sharing intention."
2. Any codependent, emotional bartering based exchange with other visitors with the purpose of getting your own addictions met
Teresa has demonstrated the following addictions:
- A desire to have others involved in her emotional process and intellectual reasoning.
She makes statements such as 'there is more for me to explore', 'this is perfect timing for me' and 'more reflection, more praying required here' and various other things that are driven by the desire to have others share in her thoughts. This is an attempt to enter codependent exchanges with others. There is also a facade based desire to appear to be progressing and processing when she is not.
Teresa is not open to new truth from others but rather would like others to validate her experience. This is a selfish use of the forum.
She also states things such as 'feeling it already' and often shares her reactions to people's posts in order to try to have others be aware of how she is feeling or of her personal reactions to specific issues. She does this not from a loving or sharing intention but rather because she would like validation for her emotions from other people and would like others to be involved in her 'process'. She has a desire for attention and involvement from others and this demonstrates a lack of humility.
- The desire to talk about feeling rather than actually feeling.
Teresa often states that she will feel about a thing or needs to feel about an issue. Her desire to talk about what she 'needs' to feel is an addictive way of trying to avoid actually feeling and to involve others in her soul work.
While I have cited various statements of Teresa's in order to assist her to connect to her motivations, I am not basing my assessment on her words but rather on the feelings I feel from her in all of her posts.
My intention is not to 'police' her words, or to cite her statements as proof of my assessment, but rather help to illustrate the way some of her emotions are being manifested in her posts and hopefully assist her to become more sensitive to what she is feeling at the times she posts.
Teresa, I hope that this feedback assists you to gain some more self awareness.
It is evident that while you are interested in talking about your emotions at the present time, you still have quite a lot of resistance to humility. When we are humble to our feelings we don't wish to involve others in them. You are also still quite resistive to viewing your emotions in the context of God's Truth and unless you grow a desire to receive God's Truth about yourself and to live in harmony with God's Laws you will find that any emotional work that you do will become circular or limited as you will not be challenging the false beliefs that drive your unhappiness. Your resistance to viewing your emotions and injuries in the context of God's Laws was what I was prompting you to reflect upon in my recent comments in your Introducing Me topic thread.
Best wishes,
Mary
Nicky is on a trip at the moment and so I offered to assist with some of his moderator tasks today.
I am issuing Teresa with 1 AMBER STRIKE as she has been in breach of the following terms of use:
1. "Not taking personal responsibility for your own emotions and growth by repeatedly trying to involve others in your own processing work from a narcissistic rather than from a loving/sharing intention."
2. Any codependent, emotional bartering based exchange with other visitors with the purpose of getting your own addictions met
Teresa has demonstrated the following addictions:
- A desire to have others involved in her emotional process and intellectual reasoning.
She makes statements such as 'there is more for me to explore', 'this is perfect timing for me' and 'more reflection, more praying required here' and various other things that are driven by the desire to have others share in her thoughts. This is an attempt to enter codependent exchanges with others. There is also a facade based desire to appear to be progressing and processing when she is not.
Teresa is not open to new truth from others but rather would like others to validate her experience. This is a selfish use of the forum.
She also states things such as 'feeling it already' and often shares her reactions to people's posts in order to try to have others be aware of how she is feeling or of her personal reactions to specific issues. She does this not from a loving or sharing intention but rather because she would like validation for her emotions from other people and would like others to be involved in her 'process'. She has a desire for attention and involvement from others and this demonstrates a lack of humility.
- The desire to talk about feeling rather than actually feeling.
Teresa often states that she will feel about a thing or needs to feel about an issue. Her desire to talk about what she 'needs' to feel is an addictive way of trying to avoid actually feeling and to involve others in her soul work.
While I have cited various statements of Teresa's in order to assist her to connect to her motivations, I am not basing my assessment on her words but rather on the feelings I feel from her in all of her posts.
My intention is not to 'police' her words, or to cite her statements as proof of my assessment, but rather help to illustrate the way some of her emotions are being manifested in her posts and hopefully assist her to become more sensitive to what she is feeling at the times she posts.
Teresa, I hope that this feedback assists you to gain some more self awareness.
It is evident that while you are interested in talking about your emotions at the present time, you still have quite a lot of resistance to humility. When we are humble to our feelings we don't wish to involve others in them. You are also still quite resistive to viewing your emotions in the context of God's Truth and unless you grow a desire to receive God's Truth about yourself and to live in harmony with God's Laws you will find that any emotional work that you do will become circular or limited as you will not be challenging the false beliefs that drive your unhappiness. Your resistance to viewing your emotions and injuries in the context of God's Laws was what I was prompting you to reflect upon in my recent comments in your Introducing Me topic thread.
Best wishes,
Mary