Hi
I have issued Sandra with 2 AMBER STRIKES for breaching the below section of the terms of use:
1) Any co-dependent, emotional bartering based exchange with other visitors with the purpose of getting your own addictions met
2) Posting comments with feelings of demand or expectation attached to them
One of Sandra's main addictions is wanting anybody, person or spirit, to help take her own fear and pain away and due to wanting to enter into this type of addiction on the forum on a number of occasions, there is also a strong demand coming out of her towards others, which would feel pretty heavy to bear to those who are open to this type of demand coming from her.
I provided Sandra with this feedback on one of her first posts once she joined the forum that can be found below:
viewtopic.php?f=11&t=544
Upon receiving my feedback, Sandra acknowledged it and then went through a period of not posting on the forum for a while. However, recently as time has gone by, she started the following thread in the "Divine Truth Questions" section of the forum:
viewtopic.php?f=21&t=612
As I stated when locking the thread, I felt this was driven by the same addiction and demands coming from Sandra whereby she wants others to enter in this addictive, co-dependant exchange with her.
Sandra then created the below thread in the assistance section of the forum:
viewtopic.php?f=11&t=643
In this thread, what Sandra is proposing is to enter into an addictive co-dependant exchange with myself and has used the term "donation" in a manner that is not accurate. I responded to her directly within this thread after feeling it as a good opportunity to discuss the issues I felt within her proposition. Although it may seem a legitimate question, the same feelings are coming from her at wanting somebody to take her fear away from her and it is the main addiction that Sandra has been trying to get met on the forum, pretty much consistently since she has registered.
I felt it necessary to issue Sandra with these strikes as I gave her this feedback in her initial assistance thread around a month ago. However, it is pretty evident to me that since this feedback, Sandra has maybe intellectually entertained it, but as of yet the truth of the situation has not touched her soul and she has recently come back to the forum trying to get this addiction met in other, more discreet ways. Her will is currently not engaged to tackle these issues and it is being exercised in a way to avoid. As a result, I have no other option but to issue her with these warnings in the hope that she may come to truly see where her will is currently engaged and how damaging it is to herself and also to others around her whom she interacts with and are open to such demands. This is also an action I have decided to take for the safety and protection of other forum members.
Thanks
Nicky