3rd Amber Strike - "spiritinfluenced2" / Sandra
Posted: Tue Jan 05, 2016 1:57 am
Hi
I have issued Sandra with a 3rd AMBER STRIKE for breaching the below section of the terms of use:
1) Any co-dependent, emotional bartering based exchange with other visitors with the purpose of getting your own addictions met
2) Posting comments with feelings of demand or expectation attached to them
I have attempted to provide Sandra with assistance numerous times with regards to her current largest issue that is preventing her own growth and it is in relation to her strong desire to avoid feeling fear and wanting others to take it away on her behalf. Because of the resistance and desire she currently has to feed her addictions (and therefore a lack of sincerity), I issued her with two amber strikes. This thread can be found by following the below link:
viewtopic.php?f=7&t=646
Within two weeks of issuing these strikes, Sandra created a thread initially in the "Assistance" section of the forum in relation to her refusal to feel fear and terror. I have since moved this thread to the "Fear & Terror" section of the forum and this thread can be found by following the below link:
viewtopic.php?f=27&t=674
Both Lena and myself gifted more of our time to offering Sandra with further assistance by sharing with her that we still felt as though Sandra was posting in addiction in order to avoid her fear and gave her yet more examples of attempting to demonstrate to her the truth of this.
Sandra responds by stating the below:
Sandra your will is exercised in a direction where you want to remain in the addiction as it keeps you away from your fear. This must be true as you are experiencing the painful effects of this choice of yours. If you are not being truthful with yourself about this, you will find it extremely difficult to see your addictions and therefore get to the fear.
Because of this, Sandra will now be muted in the hope that it may promote further self-reflection as she has been using the forum as one of her means of attempting to get these addictions met which is actually keeping her away from her fear.
It will be great to have her back here on the forum participating again in the future once she has released these addictions and has started working through some of her fear. However, at the moment she is not being sincere with herself or others therefore this is a necessary step that must be taken for the benefit of herself and everyone else.
Thanks
Nicky
I have issued Sandra with a 3rd AMBER STRIKE for breaching the below section of the terms of use:
1) Any co-dependent, emotional bartering based exchange with other visitors with the purpose of getting your own addictions met
2) Posting comments with feelings of demand or expectation attached to them
I have attempted to provide Sandra with assistance numerous times with regards to her current largest issue that is preventing her own growth and it is in relation to her strong desire to avoid feeling fear and wanting others to take it away on her behalf. Because of the resistance and desire she currently has to feed her addictions (and therefore a lack of sincerity), I issued her with two amber strikes. This thread can be found by following the below link:
viewtopic.php?f=7&t=646
Within two weeks of issuing these strikes, Sandra created a thread initially in the "Assistance" section of the forum in relation to her refusal to feel fear and terror. I have since moved this thread to the "Fear & Terror" section of the forum and this thread can be found by following the below link:
viewtopic.php?f=27&t=674
Both Lena and myself gifted more of our time to offering Sandra with further assistance by sharing with her that we still felt as though Sandra was posting in addiction in order to avoid her fear and gave her yet more examples of attempting to demonstrate to her the truth of this.
Sandra responds by stating the below:
I cannot agree with the above comments. I have attempted to help Sandra see these things numerous times via my responses to her across the forum as well as in the previous strike thread. Myself and Lena tried to help her again here but Sandra has responded in facade and is being insincere. In addition to this, Jesus & Mary have recorded many hours of videos on YouTube clearly explaining how to process addictions, get to the hurt self's feelings (fear, grief, shame etc) so Sandra saying that she does not know how to go from addiction to feeling fear is untrue unless she has never taken the time to watch at least some of these videos.I don't know how to go from addiction to feeling the fear, like I don't know what to do to change. I don't want to be stuck here, and I have been trying to do different things to get to the fear.
Sandra your will is exercised in a direction where you want to remain in the addiction as it keeps you away from your fear. This must be true as you are experiencing the painful effects of this choice of yours. If you are not being truthful with yourself about this, you will find it extremely difficult to see your addictions and therefore get to the fear.
Because of this, Sandra will now be muted in the hope that it may promote further self-reflection as she has been using the forum as one of her means of attempting to get these addictions met which is actually keeping her away from her fear.
It will be great to have her back here on the forum participating again in the future once she has released these addictions and has started working through some of her fear. However, at the moment she is not being sincere with herself or others therefore this is a necessary step that must be taken for the benefit of herself and everyone else.
Thanks
Nicky